by Ilona | Jan 5, 2018 | Metoo, Posts
Courage is not my strong suit, but last night I let some show, and I’m glad I did. I gave a piece of my mind to a complete stranger who was loudly and publicly berating his female partner. It was at the local health food store, which is not where I’d expect to see...
by Ilona | Jan 1, 2018 | Posts
Good article from The Atlantic on parentified children and how they manage later in life. They may have difficulties in romantic relationships. (You don’t say!)...
by Ilona | Oct 19, 2017 | Posts
From the “You Can’t Make This Shit Up” Department comes an article in The Gray Lady exposing a cult based in Albany that promoted the branding of women. Please click on the link for the full NYTimes piece. The group, known as Nxivm, has been searing women’s skin below...
by Ilona | Sep 23, 2017 | Posts
The more I look at love, the less I realize I know, and it’s a good day if I apply to my personal relationships one concept I’ve learned from all the wonderful new books I’ve read. Lucky for me, therapists are posting left and right about how to do...
by Ilona | Sep 1, 2017 | Posts
This article by Johann Hari on addiction blends the best of attachment theory, 12-step family programs and hard science research. Like the author, I have spent much of my life loving people who at the very least have Jekyll and Hyde personality changes when under the...
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